Mistrust

Human relationships are centered around the trust and faith in each individual ,be it in the family, relatives or the society at large.But the trust and faith are again related to the mind set of a person. But human mind behaves differently in varied situations and this behavior is termed as "Mood of the mind".

Being unable to trust can destroy friendships, careers and marriages.A woman who experienced infidelity in one relationship may transfer that fear onto every future relationship, causing unnecessary pain and turmoil for both her and her partners.

When a person is healthy, he/she tends to behave normally. But if the same person is ailing from a physiological or mental disorder like head ache or depression,  the reactions deviate from the normal pattern.

For example, a Father returning home from the office with a good mood will greet his child .But the same person bombarded by his boss,will be harsh with the son.

These aberrations in the mind reaction due to the illness that exists in a person , are the real factors that create the issues of "Mistrust" to the other party interacting with him.

Usual symptoms that indicate "Mistrust' are:

• Total lack of intimacy or relationship.

• Intensely dramatic and stormy relationships. 

• Racing thoughts of suspicion or anxiety about others.

• Belief that others are deceptive and malevolent, without real evidence

Treatment available for correcting such "Mistrust"

A qualified psychiatrist  helps individuals identify the source of their mistrust and  take corrective steps to develop the habits or methods of how to trust other people . Trust is a quality that develops over time in every context, and with proper guidance, a client can gain the insight to identify where their trust was compromised in the past. With this information, the therapist can help the client separate past trust issues from future fears, and teach them how to rebuild trust in existing relationships. 

So, we should keep our mind in good stead by maintaining the health of our body and also by having good habits of honesty, morality and humility .

But the Trust in Nature is lost when situations of Rain or Drought are faced by the human beings:especially by those who directly depend on the Nature like Farmers and allied service sectors.Then, we turn to the supernatural powers and start believing in the almighty God. That is the last resort and source of Trust for us.

Three famous quotes would enable us to solve this problem of mistrust.

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none   - William Shakespeare

         The trust of the innocent is the liar's most useful tool  -  Stephen King 

         All I have seen teaches me to trust the creator for all I have not seen -  Ralph Waldo Emerson